I’ve noticed that the more I try to be open to new love, the more I get pulled into thoughts about old ones.
It’s like people from your past haunt you.
The experiences (good and bad) replay over again on a loop in your mind, making you feel stuck and grinding to a halt the chance to start over. It doesn’t have to be an old lover. You can replay betrayals, hurts, and emotional pain caused by a former friend, boss, or family member. The damage sticks with you over a lifetime unless you choose to let it go.